Unfortunately, our current culture is one in which most young men and women don’t have the experience they really need when they become parents for the first time. Families are smaller, and girls and women are encouraged to be away from the home and family much more than in previous generations. Because of this, when many new babies are born, their parents feel unsure in how to take care of them, and especially how to soothe their cries. This book is very straightforward and easy to read and understand, giving new parents the techniques and therefore the confidence they need to care for their newborns.

Being a Christian myself, I don’t agree with the perspective that the author comes from when he talks about the evolution of man and babies being born 3 months too soon. Personally, I know from the Bible that we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and God’s plan for each baby’s birth is in His perfect time. I do agree with the author’s belief that newborn babies handle the first 3 months of their lives much better when the transition from womb to the outside world is a gentle one. The utter helplessness of my newborn daughter is God’s way of drawing me close to her. I have discovered through my experience that babies cannot be spoiled for the first 3 months of their lives, but rather they simply need to be with their mothers as much as possible during this special time that goes by so quickly.

I really like the 5 S’s that the author gives – Swaddling, Side/Stomach, Shushing, Swinging, and Sucking. They are very easy to remember, and that is important for me when I’m up with a baby in the middle of the night and too foggy-headed to remember what I read in the parenting books about that night’s particular problem. Each baby is different, and there are no cure-all solutions that will work for every baby, but the techniques in this book do work. Patience is needed to find out what works best for your baby.

I highly recommend this book for parents having a new baby, whether or not this is your first child. The only caution I would give is for Christians who might be offended by the references to evolution, but these are overlooked fairly easily.

You can buy this book here, and if you use this link a small amount of the sale will be donated to Doula San Antonio, who uses the donated funds to help moms in crisis pregnancies around the San Antonio area. Thank you!

Author: Brenda Minica, CD (CBI)

Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.

Oh, I’ve grown shiftless as Little Boy Blue
(lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo).
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
(pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo).

The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
and out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
but I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren’t her eyes the most wonderful hue?
(lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).

The cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
for children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.

Author Unknown

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There may be a few, but I’ve found you really can take your nursing baby just about anywhere! How many babies on formula can you say that about? Honestly, as a breastfeeding mom, you can pack lighter and you never have to be concerned about staying out longer than you had planned.

For one thing, a nursing baby is usually a quiet baby who doesn’t attract much attention. In fact, most times I can count on Ella to drift off to sleep following some nursing time. That’s why I like it when Ella wants to nurse as soon as we enter church. No “cry room” for us. Instead, I use my baby sling for some privacy while latching Ella on, then she’s content to nurse off to sleep for most of the service.

Once you learn to recognize your baby’s cues to nurse, you can latch her on before most people even know you brought baby along!

In fact, breastfeeding is so portable, you won’t believe it! I’ve nursed in more places than I could even count, from walking through Wal-Mart to sitting across from teachers at Parent-Teacher Conferences. It’s easily a part of my everyday life without me even thinking much about it. And, the more you do it, the more comfortable you’ll be wherever you are.

If you need some motivation to get started, here are a few of my own “nursing in public” stories:

Space Needle in Seattle, Washington. Yes! I nursed my older daughter, Alaina, at the top of the Space Needle. Hungry babies aren’t very patient and I could tell Alaina wasn’t going to be able to wait long enough for us to take the elevator back down. So, I discreetly unfastened my nursing shirt and bra, then latched her on and continued to enjoy the scenery at the top.

Water Skiing. Then, there was the time my husband and I went water skiing (with baby, of course) at a local lake. Alaina was bundled up in her orange life jacket and quite content snuggled up to me in the back of the speedboat while we pulled a skier around the lake. I’ll never forget our friend remarking how quiet and peaceful Alaina had been during our entire afternoon outing!

Children’s Museum. And, just recently, I took the kids to a local childrens’ museum that has three massage chairs looking out across a river. While the older kids explored nearby, Ella and I settled into one of those chairs. . .me for a massage and Ella for some Mommy’s milk.

Aaaahhhhh. It was so funny to look down at Ella during the part of the massage where this “thing” rhythmically moved down my back, causing Ella and me to slightly move forward & backward. I thought the movement would disturb her, but she wasn’t about to let anything get in the way of what she enjoys.

Remember, breastfeeding doesn’t stop being best for you and your baby just because you’re going to be around other people. You already decided to do what is best for your baby no matter what.

So, pick up your precious baby, hold your head high and head for the door!

Author: Linda Thom

Linda Thom is the mother of four children whom she discreetly nursed just about anywhere! If you want help on confidently breastfeeding in public, visit her at http://www.EasyBabySlings.com

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Want to know how to bring on labor naturally? If you want to get things started or you have seen your due date come and go, then you may be looking for ways to get it all over with. More than likely you really don’t want to go with the drugs available to start labor, since many of them come with side effects that can be pretty nasty.

You’ll find that various methods of bringing on labor in a natural manner are available. They won’t harm your child and you don’t have to take any drugs. The following are some great methods that can help you get labor started so you can meet your need little one.

Believe it or not, relaxation is one way that labor can be brought on naturally. When you are uptight, you may not be able to get things started. A nice massage, a great bath, or just spending some time relaxing can help. Aromatherapy can help you relax and can get things started. Try adding the visual of being in labor to your relaxation as well.

You may have heard that having sex is how to bring on labor. Well, it’s actually true. Having sex is one way that you can naturally get labor going. The hormones that end up being released have a whole lot to do with it. So, if you are feeling up to it, this may be one method that you may want to try.

Find a swing and start swinging. This can get labor started too. How does it help? Well, when you swing, it can enable the baby to get in a position that is better for birthing. When the baby is in a good position, it can start the labor for you. Bumping is another option that basically does the same thing – helping get the baby in place for the birth. Get out there on a bump road and bump your way to labor.

Taking a nice, slow walk is an excellent way to help bring on labor naturally. Often the movement of the walking can bring on contractions. When you are upright, pressure is put on your cervix. This can help it to start dilating. However, if you do this, make sure that you don’t go overboard. Drink plenty of water while walking, don’t get overheated, and if you get fatigued, you need to stop.

Acupressure is often used today as a natural way to bring on labor. It is natural and safe, and new studies have shown that this is an effective way to get labor going for many women. It’s very simple, and you can either go to a professional or even get your partner to learn the right methods so he can apply the acupressure for you. Since it’s so easy, it can b done right at home to help start labor for you.

So, you don’t have to rely on drugs to get labor going. With these natural methods of inducing labor, you won’t have to worry. They are natural and safe, and soon you’ll get to meet that little person you’ve been carrying around with you for so long.

Acid reflux in infant is actually a common problem. This article will talk about the basic things you need to know about acid reflux in babies. Get to know just how many babies are affected by acid reflux, why they get it, and how the condition progresses if left untreated.

What Are The Statistics?

In babies with acid reflux, studies show that 50 percent of all infants have acid reflux during the first 2 to 3 months of life. Most of the time, infants experience the condition after feeding. In other cases however, an infant may experience reflux while crying, straining, or coughing.

Generally, infants with acid reflux are not necessarily irritated or unhappy. In fact, many infants who have acid reflux are healthy and happy. Almost all infants will no longer have acid reflux after 12 to 18 months. However, there are a few who may continue to show signs and symptoms of acid reflux after 18 months and so may require medical attention.

Why Do Infants Get Acid Reflux?

The condition is often a natural occurrence. Our body will sometimes produce more acid in the stomach than needed, and this can be caused by several reasons. For instance, when we eat considerably more than usual in one sitting, our body will try to process the large amount of food we just consumed by secreting more acid. Acid may therefore build up in the stomach and cause us to regurgitate. Since babies tend to be lying down most of the time or fall asleep after feeding, some acid may end up in the esophagus.

What Happens If The Condition Isn’t Treated?

The similarity between acid reflux in infant and in an adult is that, in both cases, the condition can worsen if left untreated. Acid reflux can continue to progress especially in infants that experience reflux after 18 months. Constant spitting and coughing often characterize common symptoms of infant acid reflux. Sometimes, your baby may also vomit, feed poorly and become irritated.

Left untreated, accumulation of acid in the stomach may become so bad that he or she will start to develop more serious complications. Since acid reflux involves the acid and enzymes in the stomach and travels up to the esophagus, the areas around those parts of the body can also be negatively affected.

For instance, your baby may start having breathing problems because acid can travel to the esophagus and affect the areas around it such as the breast area. Furthermore, your baby may have a bloody stool and experience blood loss due to poor digestive function. A lot of pain can be caused from infant acid reflux, and your baby may continuously show signs of irritability and develop poorly (mainly because of poor feeding).

If you are panicking as to why your baby keeps spitting up or unable to feed a lot of the time, you’re not alone. Many new parents actually experience this during the first few months of caring for their child. Now that you’re more familiar with acid reflux in infant, observe if your baby is experiencing any of the symptoms mentioned earlier and have him or her diagnosed by a doctor.

Ancient traditions of baby wearing are catching on like gangbusters. Parents are learning that the age old tradition of providing the safety and security a baby needs by being held doesn’t need to interrupt their day or become an inconvenience. In fact baby wearing provides both parents and baby everything they need to develop a strong and secure bond.

A Practical Definition of Baby Wearing

So what exactly is baby wearing? It is exactly what it sounds like – placing your baby in a sling or a carrier and wearing them. The concept of baby wearing is part of the attachment parenting philosophy which believes a strong emotional bond with parents during childhood means better relationships with others in adulthood.

Benefits of Baby Wearing

Babies who are worn cry less. Babies like to be held we know this to be true in our hearts, and its been proven. In 1986, a team of pediatricians in Montreal reported on a study of ninety-nine mother-infant pairs. The study concluded that babies that are worn cry 43% less than non-worn babies.

The world is an open book. Babies who are worn learn more about the world at a younger age. When they feel safe and secure being held close to their parents, they feel more at ease pay attention to the world around them.

Multi-tasking. Baby wearing is the single best way to keep your baby safe and secure in your arms while at the same time being able to take care of all those daily tasks which require both hands.

Safe sleeping position and less risk of misshapen heads. Wearing your baby provides them a safe sleeping position, much like the pediatric association recommended position, which helps prevent Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. However unlike sleeping on their back, the recommended position, sleeping in a baby carrier doesn’t put pressure on the back of their soft heads. The result is a baby who is much less likely to develop that telltale flat spot on the back of their head.

Less risk of postpartum depression. It’s no secret that as hormone levels adjust after the birth of a baby, postpartum depression can be the result. However scientists theorize that a strong bond with a newborn baby, fostered by close contact, can increase the mother’s progesterone levels. As progesterone levels increase, the bond also increases, and postpartum depression can be averted or the effects minimized.

No more awkward breastfeeding in public. Baby carriers and slings make breastfeeding in public a private and quite secure experience. Rather than dealing with the uncomfortable glances from passersby, people won’t even know you’re feeding your baby.

Not all baby wearers are created equal. Make sure the baby carrier or sling you invest in is a safe one which allows for proper support and positioning. Used correctly a baby wearer provides busy parents the ability to both bond with their baby as well as get things done and babies grow up feeling safe and secure.

About the Author:

Get into baby wearing in comfort and style. Kate Marie Wilber is the owner of Barefoot Bella Childrens Boutique, your premium source for baby carriers, slings, girls & boys clothing, accessories, furniture and more. Visit www.BarefootBella.net for the perfect baby sling for you.

Omigosh. My baby is crying and for the life of me I can’t figure out why. Why can’t you talk to me? Well, maybe its because babies don’t talk. Wrong. Babies talk all the time. They just don’t use the English language.

Don’t tell me that when your baby’s eyes are bulging out and she’s turning blue in the face from screaming so hard she can’t even catch her breath that she isn’t trying to tell you something! You’ve been there, Mom. All those baby tears are frustration (hers, not yours) directed your way, and you just don’t get it!

Ah. What we have here is a basic failure to communicate. Two entirely different languages are being spoken here, and you don’t happen to have a U.N. interpreter. You speak English and your baby speaks Bbbfflltt!

What if you both spoke the same language? Here’s a novel idea: Why don’t you teach your baby sign language?

Wow. I thought you were going somewhere with this advice. Okay. I’ll teach my baby sign language. I’ll just squeeze it in between her organic chemistry class and her Vaganova ballet class. Hey, that was a great suggestion. Have a wonderful day.

Hold on there, mom of the year. Wendy Jensen says — Yes! Yes you can teach your baby sign language! She knows because she’s done it (well, she taught her babies, not yours). And she’s taught other parents (successfully, by the way) to teach their babies, too.

You are, naturally, skeptical at this point. But Wendy did it. And so have thousands of other moms out there. And these moms didn’t all go to Yale (or even South Eastern Missouri State). Tell you the truth, these moms, on the whole, are a pretty average bunch. Good people, but not necessarily on a par with Madame Curie or Susan Sontag. In fact, probably not as bright as you! After all, you are reading this article!

And that’s not all. There are many other benefits when you teach your baby sign language.

Imagine being able to talk to your baby, who will no longer have to scream her little head off to tell you, her mother, that her toe hurts because she bit it with her new tooth when she jammed her foot in her mouth! She can just give you a sign.

And hold on there, mama, there are side benefits, too. Long lasting ones.

Sign language helps kids develop better language skills. It’s true. Even kids that have no hearing problem. Why, you ask. Because they communicate better. Turns out they are more interested in what goes on around them. Now who would have thought? But this is true.

Here’s a few reasons why it probably works this way:

Kids are mimics. They want to shave like daddy or wear high heels like mommy (hopefully gender appropriate). Sign language starts them mimicking their parents at an earlier age. Hence they do adult things at a younger age than other kids.

You see, to mimic someone, you first have to study that person. For instance, you can’t dance like Vanessa Hudgens (she’s one of the kids in “High School Musical” — I had to look it up) without first studying how Vanessa Hudgens dances. OK. That makes sense. You also have to study the signer to learn to sign. This develops attention skills. And kids keep focused because they love it! Their little mushy brains are working full speed and its exciting to them.

Your kid will think signing is a form of action game. They love it!

How does your little bundle of joy see all of this? Every kid loves to say: “Mom! Lookamee!” Because they crave parental attention. When she is being taught sign language she is the center of attention. And there’s no “hush now” or “back into the playpen with you.” Note: Kids hate being hushed, and they really hate being dumped into the playpen.

Now, are we saying if you teach your baby sign language she is guaranteed a full blown scholastic scholarship to an Ivy League school? Sure why not. Or at least she will have a jump start on everyone else. Kids that learn that learning is fun, well, now, they are set for life. So when you teach your baby sign language, it’s like the sage old advice: Give a baby a fish and she eats today. Teach a babyto fish and you feed her for a lifetime. Well, kinda like that. The point being, the benefits to your little angel are not just for right now. She will benefit for her whole life.

You’re only born once, and the birth of a new life is a reason for celebration for the close friends and relatives of the new parents. The newborn’s life stretches before it, filled with limitless options and potential. The event of a child’s birth is celebrated in many different ways, according to individual custom and tradition. Some families have their own special customs to celebrate the birth of a baby.

In the U.S., the imminent birth of a baby is frequently marked with a baby shower. This is a special celebration during which family and friends present the new mom with baby gifts. This custom dates back to early in the 20th century, and at that time the gifts were usually made by hand. These days, baby gifts can be anything from bath products and clothing to blankets and plush toys.

The baby shower is about more than just giving baby gifts. As well, it can be lots of fun for everyone involved. It’s an opportunity for the expectant mother to discuss future plans, talk about the pregnancy and get some advice from her closest friends, which makes it a very useful experience all around.

Coming up with baby gift ideas isn’t always as simple as it might appear. It’s particularly hard if the parents don’t know the baby’s gender. Usually the best presents are suitable for any baby no matter whether it will be a girl or a boy. Blankets are always useful, and so are age appropriate plush toys. Baby dishes and bath products also make delightful gifts. You might choose to buy clothing for the baby, but if you do, it’s best to avoid newborn sizes since babies grow very quickly and some are born fairly large.

When you’re choosing a gift for a baby, keep in mind that it doesn’t have to be anything as expensive as a stroller or crib unless you’re the grandparent. But it is important to ensure that the present you select is of good quality and safe for babies. A thoughtful gift will demonstrate to the expectant mother that you’re excited and glad for her. When you’re expecting a baby it’s wonderful to realize that those you love the most share your happiness.

It’s all the rage. Famous and not-so-famous moms and dads all over the world are wearing their baby! Are you next?

The newest and greatest fashion it seems for new moms and dads are great looking and comfortable baby wrap carriers and slings. Even the rich and famous are into it – Brad wears one and so does Gweneth.

Baby has become a new (and beautiful) fashion accessory. There are many types and styles to choose from, including slings, wraps and back frame carriers. And they are created as much for style as they are for comfort and convenience.

They are becoming more and more popular – and for good reason. We have listed five main reasons why people love them – and love to wear them…

1. Freedom. Looking after a baby is full-time work. But a busy mom and dad know that there are other things to do as well. Carriers ‘free up’ your hands allowing you to wear your baby (keeping them close to you) and give you the freedom to do other things as well.

2. Comfortable for baby and parent. People all over the world are amazed how comfortable today’s modern baby carriers are for both the parent and the baby – that’s because the carriers are built so that the weight is not on the arms of the person carrying the baby – but instead is spread across the shoulders and back of the person. This feature makes the carrier a comfort to wear.

3. They can be used when baby is a newborn all the way up to a toddler.

4. Soothing to baby. It’s a well known fact that babies love to be held – holding them increases their contentment – and the more content the less they tend to cry. Carriers (especially sling and wrap styles) are built for holding baby close to you. It feels good for baby and it also feels good for you!

5. Privacy for feeding time. If your baby is a breastfed baby mom’s that use a baby carrier have the luxury of providing privacy during feeding times. Sling and wrap carriers allow you to easily position the baby in the carrier during feeding times. This means that baby can be fed almost anywhere.

Celebrity watching is a ‘national pastime’. They tend to lead the pack in style. This time however, they are using baby carriers in ever-increasing numbers not only because they look good, but more because they are comfortable to wear and have so many advantages to mom, dad and baby.

And it’s not just mom anymore. More and more celebrity dads and the not-so-famous dads are getting in on the convenience and joy of carrying their child in a carrier.